Hi! I absolutely love your writing; it's breathtaking. A while ago, an anon couldn't find a poem about anorexia and about how your sister wouldn't blow out the candles on her birthday cake. I was reading through some of your poems on eating disorders and I think it's "Letter to an Anorexic Ex-Boyfriend". It's not about a sister but it does mention candles on a cake and not wanting to lick frosting off of them. This might be it but I don't know. Hope I could help! xx

Hey! Thank you so very much. And thank you for the help, but that’s not the poem the anon was looking for. I remember writing the poem he or she was asking about; I just can’t remember what the title is, so I’m unable to find it in my archive.

I appreciate the help, though! :)