I’m so very, very sorry.
I tried to find all the pieces I’ve written about this subject, but I’m sure I’m missing one or two. I hope they will help even just a little bit.
http://writingsforwinter.tumblr.com/post/33261967331/stranger-still
http://writingsforwinter.tumblr.com/post/34602956236/let-me-tell-you-something-about-sex
http://writingsforwinter.tumblr.com/post/30490723467/this-is-for-you-and-for-everyone-else