Hello! I’m sorry for your loss, and I hope that the pain of his death will have eased a bit by the second anniversary. <3
Sharon Olds has a section of poems about war in her poetry book One Secret Thing. The section is simply titled “War.”
As far as any poems I have about war-I have one called “Crisis Management.” It’s probably not exactly what you’re looking for, but I’ll post the link anyway.
http://writingsforwinter.tumblr.com/post/42249975983/crisis-management
Sending you good thoughts and love for tomorrow.
xo